By Mingles Club, Aug 17 2018 10:11AM
The underground world of taboo, one where you cannot usually discuss matters at the school gates or over dinner with friends, it’s a world considered dark and seedy but how wrong can people be?
With over 65 (usually well attended) clubs just in the UK and websites such as Swingingheaven and Fabswingers it’s no longer as taboo as what some people seem to think.
I’m a young swinger myself starting at just 18 years old and only being 26 years now I have a lot to learn but I have worked and frequented various UK clubs over the last few years and I have met a lot of people from all different walks of life and from every background imaginable, what fascinates me is how people are so different but how they can all come together with one like minded interest SEX!
As a young single female it wasn't difficult getting onto the scene especially as I know it can be for some young single guys, I remember my first experience of a swingers club was extremely daunting yet completely liberating.
It was around 3 weeks after my 18th birthday when a couple of friends of mine (who weren't completely legit and were a little bit older than me) suggested we all go on a night out to a swingers club and I thought “well why not” and there it was already decided and before I knew it we were pulling up to a converted house and boy was it not what I was expecting, it was very clean with a lounge area and kitchen with a buffet laid out and a makeshift bar with barmen/ security and then there was playrooms with several beds in each room and porn playing on the televisions, I was outnumbered by single men at a ratio of around 4:1 but all the guys were focused on these ladies and it instantly made me feel sexy they all wanted to speak to us and get our attention and of course have their way with us which of course some of them did *Wink, Wink*, but it was all very welcoming and polite.
Now my first experience for some would put some people off for life but for me I thought it was awesome, I had never felt so attractive and wanted, of course as I explored the scene more I have learned a lot and my preferences are ever changing as is the same for most people and nowadays I prefer a more equal number of people where guys aren't pawing and leering over the ladies but you live and learn.
I have met so many people and especially new people to the scene and the one thing I always hear is its never what people expected and it isn't, most people go to clubs for the atmosphere and to meet like minded people where they don't need to keep their life a secret and can discuss subjects like the art of squirting or how to sort out the logistics of a gang bang without worrying about being judged , clubs for me like a lot of others isn't about the sex (although that's always a plus) but to be liberated and free…..
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